Chapter eleven, Sharing Information with Families,
focuses how to better communicate with parents. I really enjoyed reading this
chapter because it gave great advice to teachers on how they should
professionally respond to family members concerns regarding their child. There
were sixteen commonly asked questions that parents have regarding their child. In
the past, I’ve heard horrible stories of teachers responding in the “wrong way”
to the parents of some of their students. I’ve even witnessed incidents where
parents have become angry with their child’s teacher for responding in an
unprofessional way. This chapter really guides teachers on what they can say in
scenarios. A question that was listed as a concern a parent may have was: “It
seems like my child just memorizes the books he brings home. Last night he even
told me he could read it with his eyes closed. Is this okay?”. The response
that was given to this parent’s question/concern was both encouraging to the
parent and the child. Since I'm a substitute teacher, I personally do not get one-on-one meetings with parents,
but when I worked at a summer school program I was always communicating with parents and
ensuring the parents that their child was making progress.
Chapter twelve, Teachers Make the Difference, focuses on
encouraging teachers to continue expanding their knowledge to help support
struggling readers to improve. According to the text, “The generally accepted
theory of how reading works is that reading consists of a number of skills that
can be taught in some sequential manner”. The greatest thing I learned from
this chapter is that in order to make a difference in the as an educator, I
must change my way of thinking. Reading is a process and in order for a student
to grow as a reader, they need help in building their reading process. “Many
more teachers are starting to view reading as a process in the head of the
reader and to understand that struggling readers need help in building that
process”. The text list several possibilities of how teachers can begin to use
this new way of thinking to make a difference in schools, teachers, and
students. I plan to use all of the points given (p. 225), but the one I was
able to use the most is: “Keeping track of the time that your struggling
students are involved in real reading and writing. Is it as much time as your
more able readers are spending engaged in authentic tasks?”. During this time,
I could try working one-on-one with students to see where we need to focus more on.
Oh, my goodness . . . I always thought "I can read this book with my eyes closed" was the funniest thing. I would love to read the author's response to this concern.
ReplyDeleteI am one of those people who think best linearly. Math and science are my strong suits intellectually. Teaching children to read is so not a linear task. I think that is where we have failed our children in the past, by breaking reading into small sets of skills.
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DeleteI thought that was so funny too! I also find it easier to teach math and science. Teaching reading takes a lot of patience and skills.
DeleteSande, I am the same way with my granddaughter. Reading was something that I knew was necessary but I never really understood the whole "read this book with my eyes closed" comment that my granddaughter has made to her mother time and time again. What does it do for the child? Is it solely memorization or comprehension or conversation?
DeleteTatiana I can tell these were great chapters. I think all teachers should be wise on how they handle conferences with parents because this can determine how the parent respects you as a teacher. Teachers have to remember that parents are trusting us with their children, so we should show them they can trust us. Parents want to help their children so if they come to us for help we should be ready to help them in a respectful way with friendly advice. I also like that you said you have to change your way of thinking when helping young readers. This requires patience and a lot of work. I have to change my way of thinking daily because I have to put myself in their shoes in order to understand that they need my help.
ReplyDeleteI agree! I don't think new teachers realize the seriousness of holding a professional conversation with their student's parents. I didn't think about the importance of it until I was in the situation.
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ReplyDeleteI read this book as well and both of these chapters made me think about the school environment and how what I say can impact my relationships with others. Having advice on how to respond to parents seems like a big help. It can be so easy to say the "wrong thing" so it would be nice to have some help with talking to parents. I think it's important to really think about how what you're saying is coming across to the parent and to make sure it's respectful.
I agree Kayla. I don't think there's anything worse than saying the wrong thing to a parent because once it's said the parent will forever view you based off of what you said regarding their child. I also agree that it's very important to always show respect to parents and their children.
DeleteMy response to communicating with parents would be for the parent to come into the school and we discuss the reading goal that is written for that particular child. Parents should carry their children to the library and read aloud, use a recording device and/or video, to create conversation regarding what was read.
ReplyDeleteThanks! That's great advice.
DeleteI chose the same book. I thought chapter 11 gave great insight for how to share information with parents about reading. We don't want to overwhelm the parents with too much information but I agree that a home/ school relationship is very important!
ReplyDeleteYou are definitely right! There's nothing worse than a overwhelmed student. There must be some type of balance.
DeleteHi Tatiana,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing what you learned from these last two chapters. Both included very relevant suggestions for sharing information with parents about students' progress as well as questions to consider to determine if we, as teachers are using our time in ways that make the most impact on student understanding and achievement.
Thank you!
Dawn and Melissa
Tatiana, it is very important that teachers find ways to bridge the communication and/or working relationship gap between parents and their children. I like to include homework assignments that involve reading and writing, and for parents to take an active part as well. During curriculum nights, I always create a school/family/community brochure that pertains to health awareness and captures their attention and involvement within the school and community.
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